As some of you are probably aware, I have been training to run in the Cardiff Half Marathon, which is happening in less than two weeks’ time, on 1st October 2017. Prior to this, I wasn’t a runner, the furthest I had ever run was 5k and that nearly killed me, or it certainly felt that way.
I wanted to take part to challenge myself, as well as to improve my fitness and overall health. I found a 12-week half marathon training programme on the internet and off I went. The first couple of weeks involved running for no more than 30 minutes at a time, although this was hard enough. Gradually over the weeks it built up to two medium length runs during the week and a long run of up to two hours at the weekend.
As the weeks went on, I kept waiting for the point where the runs would start to feel easier and I might even enjoy it. Unfortunately, with three weeks to go, that moment still hadn’t arrived. Every time I ran, it would feel just as hard as the first time, my face so hot it felt like it would explode, struggling to breath, blisters on my feet and aches and pains in my legs, neck and shoulders. I started to feel anxious and doubt that it would ever get any easier. How was I going to cope with at least three hours of running when even a short run of 40 minutes felt horrible?
What has all this got to do with Mindfulness? I hear you ask. I started to think about how Mindfulness has helped me over the years to cope with the ups and downs and stressful events in my life. I wondered if I could apply what I had learned to a physical activity like running. I knew that Mindfulness could be applied to other physical activities like walking, so I decided to try an experiment.
The next time I went for a run, I meditated on my breath in the morning, before running and then set off to do my usual route, which involved a long hill. Running up that hill has always been a horrible experience, fighting for breath and legs burning all the way. This time, within a few moments of running up the hill, my calf muscles started to burn. I decided that instead of trying to ignore the pain, I would do the opposite and direct my attention towards it. I dropped my awareness down into my lower body, starting with my feet and carried out a body scan. This is a common Mindfulness practice that is usually carried out lying down, where you scan through the whole body, bit by bit and notice the sensations. I noticed the contact between my feet and the ground, then scanned up my legs to the burning sensation in my calf muscles. I stayed with that feeling and explored it for a while, noticing specifically which part of the legs were burning and going deeper into that sensation to really experience it fully. I directed my breath into the sensations in my calf muscles and imagined I was breathing into them.
I stayed with that feeling for a while and then continued to scan up the body. As I did, I noticed that the burning in my calf muscles had receded and in a few moments, it had gone completely as I directed my attention to other parts of the body. Before I knew it, I had reached the top of the hill and was back on the flat!
I was amazed by the power of paying direct attention to an unpleasant sensation instead of trying to block it out and push it away. I have been using this technique on my training runs ever since and, although it’s still not easy, it is slowly becoming more comfortable and I feel confident that I can work with pain in the body, in the same way that I can work with emotional pain and stress.
Yesterday I did my penultimate long run before the event, using the body scan whenever I noticed I was flagging or feeling uncomfortable. It was a two hour run with plenty of hills and at a few points, I noticed that I was actually having fun! Wish me luck for the big day.
If you would like to learn how to carry out a body scan and other Mindfulness practices, why not come along to our next Retreat Day at Beggars Reach Hotel on 28th October? Places can be booked on our website or our Facebook page at www.facebook.com/mindfulfuture.wales
On a summer Sunday in August the dome at beautiful Hilton Court Gardens in Pembrokeshire was the venue for our first Mindfulness Retreat Day. In fact the weather was so good that we spent most of the day meditating outside on the grass, overlooking the stunning bay below.
Particpants learnt a range of meditation practices, including the body scan and breathing anchor and took part in some Mindful Movement, a moving meditation based on Qi Gong. After lunch we had a mindful walk around the wonderful gardens and we ended the day with the beautiful Mountain Meditation. We were so relaxed by the end of the day that none of us really wanted to leave!
Places are now available on our next retreat day at Beggars Reach Hotel on 28th October 2017. Bookings can be made on the website www.mindfulfuture.wales or on our facebook page at www.facebook.com/mindfulfuture.wales.
Our August blog to keep you all updated on the latest developments at Mindful Future.
We hope you are all having a good summer and finding time to take a mindful break. Jo has just returned from a Mindfulness Retreat at Taraloka in Shropshire. This was an Advanced Mindfulness course for trainers run by Breathworks, for trainers who have already completed their Initial Mindfulness Trainers course.
The week involved a residential retreat in a beautiful setting, where participants were all invited to ‘unplug’ by turning off our phones, laptops etc. This was quite a challenge for some! Part of every day was spent in total silence, including mealtimes, which was an opportunity to eat, study and carry out other tasks mindfully without interruption.
Jo has now completed the Advanced training and will be running a practice Mindfulness for Stress course in September with supervision from a Breathworks trainer. Successful completion will enable us to run Breathworks accredited Mindfulness for Stress and Mindfulness for Health 8 week courses.
The photo above shows the centre piece from our closing ceremony.
Here are some more photos from the week:
This was followed straight after with a Mindful Movement trainer’s weekend in Manchester, which was run at the beautiful Manchester Buddhist Centre in the city centre. Being in the centre of Manchester was quite a culture shock after a week of peace and quiet at Taraloka!
Jo has now been trained in Mindful Movement, which is a moving meditation. She will be incorporating this into our future courses.
We were delighted to learn recently that we had received a small grant from Comic Relief to enable us to run a mindfulness course for family carers. We will keep you posted on how this goes.
We are also through to the final stage of the bid to become part of the School for Social Entrepreneurs. If we are successful this will give us access to a year of mentoring and workshops with successful social entrepreneurs as well as some much needed funding.
In addition, we are working hard on other grant bids to enable us to work with more people with barriers to access.
Social Enterprise Activities
Jo has been giving talks to local groups including Hafal Crossroads and Newport Carers Forum and delivering mindfulness taster sessions, which have been well received. We are hoping to do further work with a group of family carers through our Comic Relief grant.
Cardiff Half Marathon
Jo and Executive Committee member Mikinda Hawkins have signed up to run the Cardiff Half Marathon in October. Jo is raising money for Ski 4 All Wales and Mikinda is running for. Clic Sergeant. Please sponsor them if you can at https://www.justgiving.com/fundraising/jo-swift4.
Hope you all have a wonderful summer, I will be seeing some of you at our Retreat Day at Hilton Court on 27th August, which is now sold out!
I am writing this blog post sitting on a tiny stool carved from a log in a tepee. As I look around, I am surrounded by trees and spring flowers in brilliant shades of pink and yellow. In front of me is a little wooden bridge over a stream and the only sounds I can hear are the birds singing and the stream as it flows over the rocks. Sunlight dapples the leaves and a gentle breeze ruffles my hair. I am completely alone but I have never felt less lonely.
How easy it is to be mindful in this place. Nothing disturbs me and I feel totally at peace.
Rewind one week and the environment couldn’t be more different. I am in the middle of a queue to see an event at the Hay Festival on bank holiday weekend. It’s the busiest day of the festival and I am queuing for the most popular event. There is a cacophony of noise around me. Excited children are getting louder and louder and tired, stressed-out parents’ tempers getting shorter and shorter. Armed police patrol the area adding to the tension. Behind me the queue snakes back further than I can see. My feet ache from standing most of the day. I am surrounded by people but I feel lonely.
How easy is it to be mindful in this place?
In the past I have fallen into the trap of thinking that mindfulness is only possible in the right environment. For me, that would be at home in my meditation space, on my stool, with my ‘special’ cushion. I have often been guilty of using the wrong environment as an excuse not to practice when I haven’t had time or been away from home.
I have practised mindfulness meditation in cars, on trains, in the supermarket and at work as well as in the quiet environments that we might think would be more conducive to mindfulness. In fact, I would say that I get more benefit from being mindful in these busy environments, because these are often the places that can increase stress and anxiety the most.
It is possible to be either totally mindful, or completely distracted in any environment. You could be in the quietest, most picturesque place, yet be caught up with your thoughts and worries, or be in the noisiest, busiest place, yet be fully aware of the present moment. Being mindful is not dependent on a particular environment, on being alone or on having complete silence.
Next time you think you haven’t got time or are in the wrong place to be mindful, try just dropping inside the breath for a few moments and you might notice that you can benefit from just a few minutes of practice wherever you go.
This 3 minute breathing space meditation is useful to learn so that you can use it wherever you are:
April was a busy month for Mindful Future. We have just started our sixth 'Introduction to Mindfulness' course in Haverfordwest; we are now delivering courses at Pembrokeshire College on Wednesday evenings and in Haverfordwest on Saturday afternoons.
We have also started working with the VC Gallery to run a mindfulness drop-in for their customers on a Monday afternoon. This is funded from the profits made from the public courses. We are very proud to have started working towards our social enterprise aims and would like to thank Barry at VC Gallery for his support.
We held our first monthly 'Mindful Moment Drop-in' last Saturday in Haverfordwest. This is an hour long session that is a top-up for people who have previously attended one of our courses and a taster for people who are new to mindfulness, or not sure if they want to attend a full course. The next drop-in will be on 20th May in Haverfordwest. If you are interested in attending, please contact us and we will reserve a place for you. The drop-in is free, although donations towards our social enterprise work are very welcome.
We are also taking bookings for our next course which will run on Tuesday evenings from 6th June in Haverfordwest. Contact us for more information and to book a place.
We have been very pleased with the response to our request for volunteers to join our management committee and would like to thank Leanne, Suchi, Mikinda and Ellen for volunteering to help. We are looking forward to working with you to ensure that the organisation is sustainable and continues to grow. There is still room for more volunteers to join the committee and we would particularly welcome some men. If you are interested or you know someone who might be, please contact us for more information.
One of the most common topics for discussion at our sessions is distraction, or mind-wandering. A lot of people find that when they sit down to meditate or just to watch the breath for a while, their mind starts to wander and they get distracted very easily. They are often surprised that when they mention this, everyone else in the group has the same issue!
Why do our minds wander so much and get distracted so easily? The first thing to point out is that this is quite normal. Our minds do wander, random thoughts seem to pop into our heads from nowhere and it is quite easy to get carried away on our train of thought and be distracted for a while before we even notice what has happened. Have a look at this article from Psychology Today for more information.
It is also important to note that every time we notice we have been distracted and manage to turn our attention back to the object of focus, this is actually a moment of mindfulness. We are being mindful of the fact that we have been carried away on our train of thought. From my own experience, I have observed that the more practice I have at noticing when my mind has wandered, the quicker I am able to turn my attention back to the object of focus. It's a bit like a workout for the mind, the more repetitions you do, the stronger the mental muscles become.
We should also be aware of the tendency to get cross with ourselves when our mind wanders. It's normal for our minds to get distracted, so there is little point in berating ourselves when this happens. When you notice that your mind has wandered, be kind to yourself, acknowledge what has happened and gently guide your attention back to the object of focus.
So in summary:
Did you know that Monday 20th March is International Day of Happiness?
World Happiness Report
The 2017 World Happiness Report will be released at the United Nations at an event to celebrate the day. The report ranks 155 countries by their happiness levels. Happiness is increasingly considered the proper measure of social progress and the goal of public policy.
3000 respondents in each of the 155 countries were asked to evaluate their current lives on a ladder where 0 represents the worst possible life and 10 the best possible. The key variables that marked out the differences between countries were:
Of significant interest to those interested in Mindfulness, the United States, UK and Australia all ranked having a diagnosed mental illness as being more important than income, physical illness or employment in determining levels of happiness.
In all countries the most powerful effect would come from the elimination of depression and anxiety disorders, which are the main form of mental illness.
Mindfulness practices can help people to improve their mental health. The mental health charity Mind says that Mindfulness can help you to:
Action for Happiness
Action For Happiness is a movement of people committed to building a happier and more caring society. They have a website with lots of fantastic free resources, including the 10 Keys to Happier Living. They also have a great Happiness Pack for Kids, which has lots of cool resources that kids can and adults can have fun using together.
Have a look at their resources and see if you can create a little more happiness today!
Diagram reproduced from Media Psychology Tools.
In this week's mindfulness group, we discussed the Three Emotional Regulation Systems. This model comes from the work of Professor Paul Gilbert OBE, Professor of Clinical Psychology at the University of Derby and founder of The Compassionate Mind Foundation. More information can be found in his book 'The Compassionate Mind'.
In the diagram above, you can see that we have at least three major systems that regulate our emotions and each one is designed to do different things. These systems have been shaped by our evolution and interact to balance our emotions.
The purpose of the threat system is to help us to react to dangers by activating our instinct to fight, flight or freeze. The brain gives priority to dealing with threats over pleasurable things. Hormones released are adrenalin and cortisol and the emotions experienced include anxiety, anger and disgust. These unpleasant emotions help us to respond to threats appropriately.
The drive system motivates us to achieve and get things. It helps us to seek out the resources we need to survive and thrive. When we win and achieve the things that we want and need, we experience feelings of excitement and pleasure. The hormone dopamine is released, which is important in driving us towards getting what we need. The pleasurable feelings that dopamine causes often drives us to want more and more. When what we want to achieve or get is not available or our efforts are thwarted in some way, the threat system takes over, causing feelings of anxiety, frustration and anger.
The soothing system provides us with feelings of contentment, safety and peace. This is an inner peace and contentment that is different from the excitement and pleasure of getting and achieving caused by the drive system. Importantly, this system can be activated by giving and receiving kindness and affection, which releases oxytocin, sometimes referred to as the 'cuddle' hormone. The release of endorphins is also linked to this system, endorphins are the body's natural painkiller and help us to have the feelings of calm and well-being.
We absolutely need all three of these systems to survive and thrive. Problems can occur when our three major emotional regulatory systems are out of balance. Often we find ourselves moving between the drive system, wanting to achieve and get things and the threat system, when our needs are blocked in some way. Studies have shown that Mindfulness Meditation stimulates the soothing system by consciously cultivating compassion and kindness. 'Loving Kindness' meditation is a particularly useful practice for this.
Learn how to practice 'loving kindness' and other meditation practices on our 'Introduction to Mindfulness' course. The next course starts on 4th March in Haverfordwest.
Mindfulness for Health, Vidyamala Burch and Danny Penman
The Compassionate Mind, Paul Gilbert
We're already thinking about Spring and Summer 2017 here at Mindful Future. The winter will soon be over and we have launched our spring campaign for the Introduction to Mindfulness course which starts in March in Haverfordwest. As well as that we have two courses running consecutively at the moment, on Saturdays in Haverfordwest and Monday nights at Pembrokeshire College.
The nature of running a business means that we are always thinking about and planning for the future. This can sometimes seem to be at odds with the essence of Mindfulness, which is about paying attention to the present moment. It's easy to get caught up in exciting plans for the future, and just as easy to get caught up in worries about future events.
3 Minute Breathing Space
When I notice that I am being distracted by anxious or excited thoughts about the future, I find it useful to pause and become aware of the present moment. A good exercise to help with this is the 3 Minute Breathing Space. Mindfulness author Danny Penman has a description of this exercise here http://franticworld.com/the-three-minute-breathing-space-meditation-is-now-free-to-download/ and there is a link to download an audio file. It's a great exercise to learn that can be used in times of pressure and anxiety, or just to have a mindful pause during a busy day and best of all, it's free and easy to learn.
To fulfill the social aims of our organisation, we are looking to make contact with local charities and voluntary organisations who have members that may benefit from free mindfulness sessions. If you know of any groups who might be interested, please could you email us with their details, or ask them to contact us directly.
Just a short post to keep you all up to speed with the latest developments at Mindful Future. In our first year of business we have been delighted with the warm response we have received from everyone that we have been in contact with. After a busy summer publicising the business, Jo ran a taster session in Pembrokeshire College in November and we will be running our first public 'Introduction to Mindfulness' course in January as well as a second college course. There are just two places left on our public course starting in Haverfordwest in January 2017 and we have started filling places on our 6 week course commencing in March 2017.
In accordance with our social enterprise aims, we are also offering one free bursary place on all public courses in 2017 for people whose financial circumstances are such that they would not be able to afford to train with us otherwise. If you would like to find out more about this please contact firstname.lastname@example.org.
Finally, a huge thank you to everyone who has helped and supported us in our first year of business. Jo and Barney wish you all a peaceful holiday and a Mindful New Year!
Just a short blog this week to keep you all informed of our progress to date. We are excited to be launching Mindfulness taster sessions and longer 'Introduction to Mindfulness' courses with Pembrokeshire College very soon. We are also running a public 'Introduction to Mindfulness' course in Haverfordwest in January. This is a six week course running on Saturday afternoons at a cost of £40 for all six sessions. This could make a great unusual but useful Christmas present for a loved one!
We are also applying for funding to work with a local community group or charity to run a pilot study on the benefits of mindfulness. If you belong to or know of a group that might like to get involved, please contact us.
So, a very exciting time for us - we are making progress. Glad to have you along with us for the ride!